I was just online and came across this 文章 a woman wrote about 爱情 and her husband and it instantly reminded me of the Stelena/Delena triangle. Stefan loves Elena and she knows that and he seems like the better choice but she'll never be truly happy 或者 satisfied. Damon would have 给 her that and if she chooses Stefan she'll just be bored in the future wondering what life could have been like.
"I have been with a man who loves me, and has loved me, as close as one can get to unconditionally for over 13 yrs…. I was never totally madly in 爱情 with him, but he knew he wanted to marry me the 分钟 he met me. I married him – BECAUSE he was a great guy in so many ways, minus the sky illuminating fireworks. Don’t get me wrong, intimate moments were always adequate…even pretty damn good at times. But never, well, 你 know…crazy great. Almost fourteen years later, I remain married and faithful, but with an empty 太空 in my heart. And wondering if I aspired to mediocrity and 迷失 out on the amazing feeling most of us have felt at some time, of true selfless love. I 爱情 him….but I’m not ‘in love’ with him. And that is what has happened to EACH AND EVERY married friend I have, (male and female) that married simply because of the reasons 你 mention… many have strayed, the others are simply living there…yet nobody’s home."
"I have been with a man who loves me, and has loved me, as close as one can get to unconditionally for over 13 yrs…. I was never totally madly in 爱情 with him, but he knew he wanted to marry me the 分钟 he met me. I married him – BECAUSE he was a great guy in so many ways, minus the sky illuminating fireworks. Don’t get me wrong, intimate moments were always adequate…even pretty damn good at times. But never, well, 你 know…crazy great. Almost fourteen years later, I remain married and faithful, but with an empty 太空 in my heart. And wondering if I aspired to mediocrity and 迷失 out on the amazing feeling most of us have felt at some time, of true selfless love. I 爱情 him….but I’m not ‘in love’ with him. And that is what has happened to EACH AND EVERY married friend I have, (male and female) that married simply because of the reasons 你 mention… many have strayed, the others are simply living there…yet nobody’s home."