Is an entire generation of girls internalizing the idea that abuse is romantic? 

Sacre Merde.

Definitely not all of us... If a guy watched ME sleep, he'd be getting his butt kicked, not my 'eternal love' or whatever.

I think are more so internalizing the idea that the intentions are more important that the actions.

Of course not. The fact that certain individuals are naive enough to believe something like that doesn't mean that it will affect an entire generation- certainly not me or anyone I know, anyway. Most young girls are much more sane than people give them credit for.