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Please help a christian who needs it :'(

I have never told anyone this, not my parents, not my friends, (you'll see why) nor my siblings.

I was a little kid, I had switched schools, from 1st Grade, to 2nd, I had found new 老友记 to accompany my GT classes, I had found about 5 老友记 when I got there (and I was really shy, so I was proud with myself :) ) Im not telling the names so if they read this they wont know... They seemed very nice at the beginning snd I was beginning to know 更多 about them, but as that happened, I found that they weren't actually very nice, they cussed constantly, (it started in about 3rd Grade), they talked about 更多 disgusting things like sex, private parts, etc. And I didn't want to be their 老友记 anymore, but I couldn't just stop! I was stuck with them in the class! So I stayed "friends", and the 更多 they grew with me, the less I liked them. Until I REALLY hated them, they cussed at their own classmates, ME, and the teacher sometimes with the teacher noticing. One of my "friends" even watched porn, I was shocked when I figured out they did, they also 说 THEY were Christians, and when I asked them how, they said, "OH, I have like 5 (bleeping) bibles in my house!" It was obvious they didn't know what being a true Christian was :'( I felt sad. Please tell me what to do! Even my dad went through something like this, but in the streets! If 你 guys could help me through middle school, that would be a huge help, i'm sorry if I wasted your time with this huge paragraph ;(
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你 did not waste my time & I am glad 你 ask... (My answer actually took several attempts through computers problems, etc, but I wanted 你 to get it, to see 你 can be loved and have 老友记 who ARE what 你 need and sometimes we have to wait. God is all we really need and He can be a friend. Now ask Him. :)
Sinna_Hime_chan posted 一年多以前
 DannyGassy posted 一年多以前
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PucksLady said:
嘿 now don't worry about the large paragraph!

Wow, this is a big problem! I've never had to deal with this, thank God, but I do have "friends" who are terrible people. The best way to deal with this, that I can think of, is to just ignore them. They are terrible people, and they do not know what it means to be a true Christian. I wouldn't say anything, though, because if 你 do, they might say that you're shoving your "religion" down their throats (I have had experience with that).

However, if they start bad-mouthing Christianity, 你 do need to stand up for what 你 believe in. Don't be afraid to do that! Call on Christ as your protecter and ask Him to give 你 the right words to say.

I hope I helped, and feel free to message me if 你 need anything. :)
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coriann said:
wow Danny, im so sorry, i understand the pain 你 must feel, Danny, i was a Christian once, and before 你 start judging me, just listen...
I went through the same thing, and I wondered, where on earth are all the other Christians? I began to feel lonely, I didn't have such a good ending, but 你 can!

I know this might seem hard for you, and it must make 你 angry to think that your friend calls him/herself a Christian,
but Danny, 你 need to take a deep breath and put all of this aside, look inside yourself, 你 know who 你 are but 你 also know that 你 have to stay in school.

你 stay 老友记 with them, 你 need to open up your mind to these people, don't judge them, try to understand why they do the things they do, then, maybe if 你 can understand them, 你 will not feel so upset with them anymore. Get along with them because in a dangerous place like school, 你 need to have friends, 你 need to have people who have your back,

你 may not understand these friends, im not saying 你 have to be best 老友记 with them, but, the bible says to 爱情 your enemy and pray for those who persecute you, judge not and 你 shall not be judged.
你 know who 你 are, that's the most important thing, and there are plenty of people out there that feel the same way as 你 and 你 will find them eventually! :D and you'll be really happy, in the mean time hang in there baby, 哈哈 i don't want 你 to end up like me

i hope this was good advice! ^ ^
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Coriann - 你 know I 爱情 ya bunches Hunny, but if 你 have turned AWAY from God, then why are 你 even answering someone's 问题 HERE. I can't judge 你 to even ask 你 why 你 are here, though, in truth I wonder, as this is a "Christianity" Club & 你 say 你 aren't... but people come here to hear from Christians and not non-Christians. They could go anywhere else for that 建议 and I hope 你 understand what I am trying to say isn't saying 你 have nothing good to offer, I am just wondering why 你 answer f they are ASKINg 或者 needing something else?
Sinna_Hime_chan posted 一年多以前
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你 have A LOT of good to offer and say some wonderful things~ I 爱情 you... and it is NOT an end for 你 Baby Gurl, like 你 said, it is a beginning and never ever too late while 你 have breath I hope sooner than later 你 can find your way back to God because 你 are precious.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted 一年多以前
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:) thx Sin, lol, 你 know i will, not like i can stay away from y'all ;)
coriann posted 一年多以前
Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Just because someone says they are a Christian doesn't mean they are & just because a Christian isn't perfect 或者 has faults -doesn't mean they aren't, people can be false as 你 saw very clearly with your eyes about your 老友记 - now look at yourself.

God brings us up to learn. All throughout the Bible were many trials, tribulations, choices & lessons to help us. Personally I think 你 were wrong to stay 老友记 with those classmates. To me that shows 你 were not strong. I must have super hero strength then for the choices I have faced, (not really) because even being able to make a good choice here 或者 there, I am NOT the one who is strong- GOD IS; it is He who is in me & God who enables that ability. I still get very sad, I still falter. My point is life isn't about others (though we can learn from watching them), it is about trying to make better & better decisions ourselves & about growing.

As a Christian it is supposed to be about faith & not caring about worldly issues 或者 about what anyone else is doing 或者 thinking but caring about what God thinks & about how we feel about it with the Holy Spirit inside as our compass. We are 给 guidance and a conscience. These "lofty" ideals really are not unabtainable 或者 confusing..... God makes things 更多 simple than for people without Him.

The simple thing here is seeing that 你 needed people of "positive" support, who lift 你 in positive ways & directions... 老友记 who "relate" to you, in actions, heart, & spirit because it makes a WORLD of difference.

This is your personal journey.
This is also how God hones us and weeds us out.
你 will have difficult decisions throughout your life. If 你 feel 你 lack something- PRAY for it. Anything asked in 耶稣 name will be 给 according to His will. ASK for strength & (being careful what 你 ask for) ASK for God to surround 你 with the positive people HE wants for 你 in your life.

Don't feel bad for letting them go.
Maybe they have never heard anyone tell them, "I am sorry, we're friends, but I don't think this is how I wanted things to be for me 或者 imagined them-it hurt me the way 你 acted because it made me feel bad. It just is not what I need to be around because that isn't what I want to do. Sorry." and if they are jerks they are gonna act like jerks. Life gets hard. This is all about learning so that 你 can do better and deal better and please God and then be blessed and pleased yourself 由 the blessings of seeking Him. Because 你 care -you will see God cares very much too. He always cares about you. He will always help 你 (*esp when 你 seek Him 或者 ask).

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 [b]Just because someone says they are a Christian doesn't mean they are[/b] & [b]just because a Christian isn't perfect 或者 has faults -doesn't mean they aren't[/b], people can be false as 你 saw very clearly with your eyes about your 老友记 - [b]now look at yourself[/b]. [b]God brings us up to learn[/b]. All throughout the Bible were many trials, tribulations, choices & lessons to help us. Personally I think 你 were wrong to stay 老友记 with those classmates. To me that shows 你 were not strong. I must have super hero strength then for the choices I have faced, (not really) because even being able to make a good choice here 或者 there, I am NOT the one who is strong- GOD IS; it is He who is in me & God who enables that ability. I still get very sad, I still falter. My point is life isn't about others (though we can learn from watching them), it is about trying to make better & better decisions ourselves & about growing. As a Christian it is supposed to be about faith & not caring about worldly issues 或者 about what anyone else is doing 或者 thinking but caring about what God thinks & about how we feel about it with the Holy Spirit inside as our compass. We are 给 guidance and a conscience. These "lofty" ideals really are not unabtainable 或者 confusing..... God makes things 更多 simple than for people without Him. The simple thing here is seeing that 你 needed people of "positive" support, who lift 你 in positive ways & directions... 老友记 who "relate" to you, in actions, heart, & spirit because it makes a WORLD of difference. This is your personal journey. This is also how God hones us and weeds us out. 你 will have difficult decisions throughout your life. If 你 feel 你 lack something- PRAY for it. Anything asked in 耶稣 name will be 给 according to His will. ASK for strength & (being careful what 你 ask for) ASK for God to surround 你 with the positive people HE wants for 你 in your life. Don't feel bad for letting them go. Maybe they have never heard anyone tell them, "I am sorry, we're friends, but I don't think this is how I wanted things to be for me 或者 imagined them-it hurt me the way 你 acted because it made me feel bad. It just is not what I need to be around because that isn't what I want to do. Sorry." and if they are jerks they are gonna act like jerks. Life gets hard. This is all about learning so that 你 can do better and deal better and please God and then be blessed and pleased yourself 由 the blessings of seeking Him. Because 你 care -you will see God cares very much too. He always cares about you. He will always help 你 (*esp when 你 seek Him 或者 ask). [url=http://www.wikihow.com/Decide-if-Your-Friend-is-a-True-Friend]Real/True Friend 或者 Not?[/url]
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...and what Coriann said, about looking at your 老友记 and trying to understand where they are at too- don't burn your bridge 或者 be too harsh 或者 judgemental, don't be ugly to them, but people do grow apart and 你 do not have to sit in the 座位 of the scoffer nor stand in the path of the sinner to 爱情 your enemies and bless those that curse you. 你 can be a postive example for them, but don't let "them" drag "you" down ;)
Sinna_Hime_chan posted 一年多以前
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Thanks, your answer really helped :')
DannyGassy posted 一年多以前
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d'awe! look 你 got me blushin! ^ ^ thx Sin, im glad to hear somebody actually appreciates all the stuff i post! 你 know i really put a lot of time into some of my posts, like the one on gays going to heaven, i spent all morning researching for that, no it was fun really, i was actually bored out of my mind so again thx a lot and i really like 你 too! i enjoy posting with you! ^ ^
coriann posted 一年多以前
natalierg said:
Don't worry about the paragraph, it's not even that big and 写作 helps 你 vent. Life can get tough and bumpy sometimes but it's important to never stray from God. 你 should leave those "friends" because even though it's hard it's better to have no 老友记 than "friends" who bring 你 down in your faith and just in general. 你 should look into a thing called Lift Camp. It is AMAZING and brings 你 soooooo much closer to God.
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MineTurtle5 said:
Those people who call themselves Christians, and yet live in sin, are called 'lukewarm'. And that's very dangerous.
God says in Revelation 3:16 that he will spit the lukewarm Christians out of his mouth.
Also, those lukewarm Christians who are doing just enough, get just enough of the Lord to get by, risk missing Him altogether.

If 你 haven't already talked to them about what they're doing is wrong, do that. If they still ignore you, pray for them, if 你 haven't started already
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