the more i rewatch buffy the more i hate xander, through out the series he takes any chance possible to turn his back on buffy, blame her for everything or betray her and the thing is he does all this crappy stuff and is NEVER called on it. with friends like him who needs enemies? whenever he does this he often makes buffy feel guilty and she ends up being the one apologising, i wish for once Xander's actions were questioned and he had to live with the consequences. if you have no idea what i am talking about think of all the times he was quick to tell buffy it was all her fault whenever anyone else was in trouble, how he didn't pass willow's message on properly before buffy fought angelus, his attitude in the episode its revealed angel is back, when they kicked buffy out of HER house, this is just the stuff that comes to mind now, i'm sure there are many more examples. he's not a loyal friend and is often blinded by his own selfishness and jealousy.
my sister feels the same way, are we the only ones who have noticed Xander's behaviour???