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Did I make the right choice?

I was dating this guy and he got all buddie-buddie with a guy he knows I hate and keeps asking me out. One 日 when my bf had to leave early the guy came up to me and said, "Your bf 说 we should go out." I was like uhmmmm! so i kinda shrugged it off as usual and the 下一个 日 my bf sent me a nite saying, "If we break up (not saying I want to) would 你 go out with him? He wants to know." To me it sounded like if I would have 说 yes he would have broken up with me. So during the weekend I thought about it and decided to break up with him. Do 你 think I made the right choice?
 Emo_gurl63 posted 一年多以前
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cherry_Dropzx said:
well, hmmmmh, DO 你 think 你 made the right choice? i can't tell 你 whether 你 have 或者 not. but i will say this: your first bf, did 你 really like him? 或者 was it the other guy that 你 like....in my experience it seems that we always become drawn to the guy we are desperate to hate, but its not really like that coz deep down its him that we want. but i guess the 问题 that will establish whether 你 made the right choice is: if 你 did decide to go out with the other guy, can 你 trust him, can 你 tell him stuff 你 would never tell your besties? can 你 have fun times, sad times and serious times with him? if the answer is yes to all of those 问题 then yeah 你 made a choice - its seems like a good one, but 你 will find out later down the line if it was the right one. just remember, don't be treating relationships lightly and dump one guy for another, coz they will catch on to that and do the same to you. :|
good luck :D
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