i need help...

Well I'm not so sure if you'll like theses 日本动漫 but here are some 你 can watch:
Shugo chara
Lucky 星, 星级
Squid Girl
School Rumble
Those are some 日本动漫 that I think your mom might not mind.Some might not be as interesting like bleach but 你 can just try them
Hope I help ^w^

Katekyo Hitman Reborn!: It's about the Mafia, but it's based in Japan. Theres a baby named Reborn who has a pet chameleon named Leon that can change into anything in it's memory, one of those things is a gun. The baby uses the gun to shoot his student, Tsunayoshi Sawada, with deathsperation bullet which doesn't really kill him. Theres barely any blood execpt for like 5 eps. I haven watched the whole thing yet so I'm not sure if theres any other eps with blood. Genre:Action,Comedy,Fantasy,Shounen,Supernatural

Sgt. Frog: This is about frogs trying to take over earth 或者 "Pekopon" as they call it. It's about the A.R.M.P.I.T. Platoon(in 日本 It's called the Keroro Platoon). There are five frogs in the platoon, Sgt. Keroro, Private 秒 Class Tamama, Corporol Giroro, Sgt. Major Kululu, and Lance Corporol Dororo who is also a ninja. Keroro loves to build Gundam models. Tamama loves to eat sweets. Giroro loves to blow things up. Kululu likes to create wepons. And Dororo likes to plant flowers. There isn't any blood.Genre:Action,Comedy,Sci-fi,Supernatural

elemtal gelade is good it doesnt have bearly any blood 或者 cursing and it is a good story i think 你 would like it

In Ouran Highschool host club they have few curse words.
In 犬夜叉 there are only a few curse words.But there is blood.
Hmmmmmm thinking........I know an really old one with only like two blood parts. Its called Sorcerous Stabber Orphen. Its old but good. I don't watch it much any 更多 though. There is few curse words.

INUYASHA!!!!!!!!!!:D The best 日本动漫 to watch and what your looking for. plus there's ouran high school

Kekkaishi is really good too.

im not sure if these 日本动漫 are what 你 like but here:
Death note
fullmoon wo sagashite
vampire knight
Kaichou wa maid sama
kamikaze kaitou jeanne
school rumble
shugo chara

i personally like death note and vampire knight.
sorry if im not much help 哈哈

1.Ouran high school host club (not action but its funny)
2.Fruits basket(not much action either but its cute and funny sometimes)
3.Fairy tail (tons of action not much blood its funny and its my favourite anime)

你 are just like me
we have no luck T-T my parents HATE animes with blood and curses , but I can watch them at sleepover 或者 I hide
but 你 should watch Kaze no Stigma it's pretty fun and cool , with a lot of action -they don't really have blood in it 或者 bad words

but 你 can also try out "ouran high school host club" and "fairy tail"