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I'm completely stumped.

For once. While reading, I want 你 to keep in mind that I've never dated before. A couple of days ago, this girl came up to me during lunch and asked me to go out with her in the sweetest way possible(holding out a 水果 snack and stuttering over her words like the adorable dork she is). My first instinct was to say yes, because I didn't want to hurt her feelings. So I did. I began to think about it and I really don't know if that was the right decision. I promised myself as a freshman that I wouldn't 日期 until I was ready, and I still don't feel ready even though I am technically dating her now. I don't want to be that asshole who breaks up with someone after only days of being with them. I like her too, but I also don't want my feelings for one of my former 老友记 to get in the way of this, which is the biggest issue I am having with it all. If I don't do something about it now, it might come up later and it would only hurt her 更多 if I waited. What should I do? I'm very distressed about this, and I want to do all I can to make everything feel as it should be, instead of feeling like I'm in the wrong place/relationship, and I want to do all I can to make sure I don't hurt her in the process.

(Another thing is that she is a Senior and I'm a Junior, if that matters at all.)
 LinkKinuzuma13 posted 一年多以前
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