confusions with a guy, after 6year friendship?
so i don't know where to start but i really need some help :/ i've known this guy, my brother's best friend, for six years and we've been through a lot together. we trust each other like brother and sister. but there was a poin in time i liked him but was rejected. i let it go, but now recently he keeps telling me he likes me and wants to be together with me, like dating. but i'm so unsure about so many things.yes, i admit, i do still have lingering feelings for him, i feel attracted to him, i trust him, but i'm not quite sure about going there, seeing as he's so important to me.
-he's always been a bit of a player, but he says he's liked me for so long that he wouldn't do that.
-i don't know what dating would entail for us, mainly wouldn't it just mean adding sex to the relationship?
-if i don't want to have sex any time soon, then what would be the point of us going out?
-he's my brother's bestfriend, thinks of him as a brother, and has already told me in the past he would NOT be okay with the two of us together. do i really want to ruin that?
i will admit i like him a lot, he's the only guy who i ever got jealous of girls around him, i've always been happy being the closest girl to him. i wouldn't mind bring with him in a relationship, minus the unsure about sex stuff.
(the sex part isn't just him in general, i'm just not ready for that yet.)
any 建议 on my concerns 或者 what i should do.
i've thought about it for two weeks now and am getting nowhere.