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Relationship problem...

I've been dating this guy for about four months, and he's really sweet and all, but he's a bit, fast. He's asked me to marry him several times, and every time I don't say yes, he gets hurt and doesn't talk to me for the rest of the 日 或者 several days. We're only 17. Yesterday he asked me if I would have a kid with him, and I 说 no, and he got really upset and even hinted that we should break up, because I won't have a kid with him. We're only 17! My stomach hurts from all this anxiety, this has happened several times before. I'm starting to wonder if it's worth it.

Is it?
 Nayeli2353 posted 一年多以前
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EgoMouse said:
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Just four months? It just already started. He's already sending red flags. Get out of there when 你 have the chance.
I highly doubt he has the money, the job, the responsibilities, and the mindset to become a father already. Fatherhood is serious. You're also probably too young to become a mother.
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posted 一年多以前 
summer448 said:
In a relationship there should be mutual respect and understanding for ones feelings. If he is trying to pressure 你 into things and then 表演 childish after 你 refuse then it isn't worth it.
你 deserve someone who will 移动 through a relationship with 你 at a speed that is comfortable with the both of you.
I would try to talk it out first before 你 go and break it off. Although if he keeps asking 你 like 你 say he is then I doubt he would consider going at a slower pace, but 你 don't know unless 你 try ~
I hope 你 feel better and i hope this helped a little.
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posted 一年多以前 
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