Teen mum

嘿 Sorry for the late reply, haven't been on here much recently.
I'm not sure what you'd class as a teen mum, i was 19 when i got pregnant and though that's way older then 你 probably imagined i was still a teenager and i'm telling you, it's the toughest job 你 will ever experience but it is so rewarding.
Luckily i had already finished school but if 你 haven't i'd say stick with it. Schooling is important, it opens opportunities to better yourself and your family if and when 你 work hard. Don't forget, 你 want good grades to get a good job to 淋浴 that little bundle of joy with everything she/he could ever have. It's going to be tough, after all a baby wants your attention 24/7, and in that 你 need to fit time for yourself, time for your family, time for studies, time for your boyfriend, time to clean house and cook meals etc.
你 will be tired, 你 will be stressed, 你 will want to scream and shout and cry and throw that lovely little 天使 out of the goddamn window (not lying, i really felt like this at one point), but 你 don't, 你 just take a big breath and carry on as that's what mum's do.
你 sacrifice everything! 你 sacrifice your money, your time, your 爱情 and even the things 你 want so your child gets, and it's doesn't stop when they're grown either!
Listen to your parents, listen to your midwife, take their 建议 but don't be afraid to ask 问题 and experiment with your own parenting skills, each mother and child is different. Midwives do it 由 the book, but 你 shouldn't need to, cos 9 times out of 10, it won't work anyway. Do what 你 feel is best not only to make things easier on you, but also to ensure 你 child gets the best care possible without making 你 go up the 墙 stark crazy. And don't forget dad needs to lend a helping hand to. Take it in turns, one night 你 feed and change the baby, the other (if your breast feeding express 牛奶 before hand) he can feed and change the baby etc
And remember - never ever think it's a sign of weakness to ask for help. 你 need a break? Fine, ask your parents if they will look after the child while 你 go to the corner shop, just explain 你 need a little breather, and 你 won't be too long. 10 分钟 walk to the local 商店 and back 或者 15 分钟 茶 break did me the world of good!
And this is from experience, i'm not very sociable as rule, i hate other people's children and i hate other people but i forced myself to go to mother and baby classes and stay and play etc, not just to meet other mums who can give good advice, but also to socialize your child and get 你 some new friends. Some of your old 老友记 may stick around, some may not. But 你 can always make new ones.
In fact i didn't really click with any of the other mums until my son started nursery at age 3, now i have a small band of mothers who though i may not call my friends, i can talk to and walk to and from school with and that has made all the difference.Do what 你 think is right.