Maybe their nervous around 你 或者 你 are doing soemthing that make them like that. Sorry if that was offending. xD I guess 你 might want to look at how things were in the past and see if there were any problems 或者 if the girls 你 were hanging out with weren´t your type. Well, good luck anyways and hope 你 find your girl soon! She´s out there! xDD