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Chibi-Baka3 said:
I once had a problem like this before, way back years 以前 when I was a kid.
Heck, I'll be honest with you: I get these problems ONLINE; I play this game and this girl likes to come around and start trouble with me, and I don't have to say a word. She'll be the first to start it. Listen, the simplest thing to do here is just ignore it. It's hard, annoying, and uses up a lot of patience, but there isn't really much that 你 can do. 你 can talk to an adult figure about it and see their extents, but that's as far as it'll go. I know that 你 have urges to "punch her", but I'm going to say the obvious thing here: don't do it. How would it make 你 any better than her if 你 were to use violence? It's never the answer. Doing that might even put 你 BELOW her, and I know that 你 probably don't want to stoop that low.
It's hard to think of this way and live 由 it, since humans can be really sensitive to what people say, but words are just words. The insults that she throws at you? Doesn't make her any better; you're the one growing. Her persistence at it? She's wasting her time; you're using yours the right way. Time waits for no one. Take those few steps ahead of her and become the better person.
I really don't know what the deal is -- whether it be 你 got into some fight 或者 she's just like that for some reason -- but it has to stop. I'm not saying it for you, but for her. What's the point? That she can look at someone and try giving out empty threats 或者 insults? That's nice and all, but she'll be the one holding herself back. All I can really say is that she hopefully grows out of that, because if she doesn't... Well, I just might pity her for it.
Good luck to you. If 你 have any 更多 questions, don't hesitate to ask.
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