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Oh god, i need advice.....

I have a friend, who is a guy. We're so close and to be honest, i have a crush on him. One day, i heard a rumor about me and him are dating. And the person who starts the rumor is his ex. He's deeply upset and now he hates me and he never going to talk to me anymore. He even blame this shit on me, how could his ex made such a rumor. I heard that they're both are going back and i'm happy with that. I really want to talk to him again and ghive him some 建议 but i have no balls to do it because he's not one of those guys who accept apologies that easy. What should i do?

(I swear to God, if this world turns into a zombie apocalyspe and have to be stuck with him i will probanly left him behind for sure >:I
 Blue_Vanilla posted 一年多以前
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Exes... Aye caramba, don't get me started on them...

If 你 two were really that close, he should know that 你 wouldn't have started this whole thing. He needs to be 更多 understanding and not jump to conclusions; doing that, as you've seen, causes problems. I don't want to sound mean, but 你 have to suck it up and talk to him. This is a matter of thinking, "Am I just going to sit here and have him 'hate me', 或者 am I going to do something about it?" YOU'RE not even the one at fault, so 你 DON'T have to be sorry for it.

Tell him that it's a misunderstanding. Being as I don't accept apologies that easy either, I know what he might feel, but he still needs to learn not to be so much of a hard-head. It doesn't do much for anyone. He can lose relationships with friends, loved ones, etc; he can lose someone's trust. I don't know about 你 或者 him, but I for one wouldn't want to take any of those chances. Why bother to make so many enemies and put stress on the both of you?

Talk to him about it, and remember to have some patience. Even if he won't listen, try another day. People have to get over things at SOME point; I'll be a bit blunt here: it was a dumb rumor. People should know better than to take those things seriously, and 你 should definitely know that from experience. It's too bad that it takes a while for some people to grow up.

If 你 have any 更多 questions, don't hesitate to ask me. Good luck to you.
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posted 一年多以前 
I-Luv-L said:
Dude/Lady 你 are in some deep shit if I was I would prove that 你 are honest and loyal and sweet.I don't take "sorry,can we be friends" neither so 你 should give him the 最佳, 返回页首 three things he love.And bring down all his enemies.Go 首页 and make 你 huge sweet poem about "being sorry" and read it to him.

*But of coarse non of this is your fault sooo in side 你 know this ,but outside feel sorry*

P.S. If non of this work sorry....
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posted 一年多以前 
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或者 just remind him that 你 are not the one 你 stared this rumor.
I-Luv-L posted 一年多以前
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